Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Sunitha Krishnan fights sex slavery | Video on TED.com
Sunitha Krishnan fights sex slavery | Video on TED.com
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
LOOKS CAN BE VERY DECEIVING!
My dad used to tell us a story of his college days back in Boston. It was a lesson learned the hard way.
One of his roommates, Chuck, thoroughly enjoyed chocolate and had stashes of the confection everywhere. My father and another roomate had discovered most of the hiding places and would routinely sneak a bite (or mouthful) at will. After Chuck would replenish a stash, my father and his cohort in crime would ransack the goods. This went on for some time before Chuck would take his revenge. Chuck wanted them to get good and comfortable helping themselves before he would make his move.
The day had come. My father entered their room after class. He was alone and seized the opportunity to help himself to a chocolaty afternoon snack.
An hour or two past and my father was feeling less and less well. He could take it no more. He rushed down the hall to the facilities where he spent a good portion of the afternoon.
When my dad returned to the room he was greeted by Chuck, who explained he had not eaten chocolate, but instead had indulged in a sizable helping of Ex-lax.
My dad was a little lighter, but had learned an important lesson; looks can be very deceiving (and … don’t steal.) Now, if my dad had carefully inspected what he had been so quick to pop in his mouth, he would have noticed these were not your typical pieces of chocolate. At which point, I think he would have passed on the indulgence.
It’s the same with an organization’s message. It can’t just appear to look good. IT MUST BE GOOD! It must be consistent, truthful and explanatory. The last thing you want is for a customer, client or donor to start seeing inconsistencies and holes in your message. You lose people’s trust and confidence when you are not clear, concise and consistent.
Whether you’ve been in business 50 years or are just putting an organization together, you must have a consistent message. This is how you brand your organization. Don’t water it down! Make it strong but not over bearing, clear but simple and lastly, make it compelling!
WordUp!
Monday, July 27, 2009
They Are My Own!!!
One part of the trailer shows Esther saying, “It must be hard to love an adopted child as much as your own.” When I heard this, I had to remind myself that this is true ignorance speaking and not reality, because reality knows no difference.
The first experience I can share is the adoption of both our children. My wife and I have adopted a boy and a girl. Our son was a domestic adoption and our daughter, from
A year after our son’s entrance into our family our
As we went from one child to two, we knew that if we were to grow our family larger that we only wanted to do this through adoption. We know many families who even though they had adopted still had the longing to have a biological child. Moira and I were, and are completely contrary to this. From our first adoption on we always were thankful when we knew another month had passed and Moira was not pregnant. This was because of the overwhelming joy and satisfaction of knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that God’s children are no different whether they carry our DNA or not. If our family is to ever grow again, adoption has always been our choice.
Another experience I had was just a little over five years ago. God made it very clear to me that I was to join our church on a trip and go to two Russian orphanages. At the time both my kids were 2 ½ years old, so I assumed I would spend much of my time in
After arriving at an orphanage in
The following six days proved to be some of the best six days of my life. I built solid relationships with each of them. We talked about why some of them were there, how they were coping with being there and what their dreams and aspirations were. I did not see resentment or bitterness in these girls. I saw hope, love and lots of determination to make it.
Not one child was there because of anything they did, and I can assure you none of them chose to be there. Every child in an orphanage has been traumatized at least twice. First, because of the event which made them “eligible” to be in an orphanage and second, the day they were place in the orphanage and all the security they knew had been stripped from them.
They day we left the orphanage was the single worst day of my life. I have never been so sad about anything in my life. At that point I didn’t know what would happen to them, or if I’d get to see them ever again. Those five girls have so much to give, and I only hope every one of them has a chance to use their talents and make the difference each of them is capable of making. Through them, I learned some painful hard truths about myself too.
Fortunately, that was not the last time I saw them. I went back two more times in the next 13 months. The 12 year old who took my hand on that first day now lives in the
With that said, I wish I could say to Esther, my two kids and the kids in Ivanova are my own. I love them all very much, just as I know they love me.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Remember The "Jello Story"
Thursday, June 18, 2009
OH, NOW I GET IT!
Almost 20 years ago I was invited to go to
Five years ago I went on my first of three trips to
We were the first group of many to go to
Don’t get me wrong, I’m thankful to have gone to
My point, in short, is I want to be part of a tangible solution regarding orphan & widow care and world hunger. I want to be in a position where I can take the time to volunteer or better yet, work fulltime helping those less fortunate.
Get your hands dirty…now!